The Art of Giving and Receiving Cash Gifts
Breaking the Taboo
When it comes to gift-giving, every family has its own unique traditions and, let’s face it, at least one person who always seems to get it wrong. But what if there was a way to avoid the guesswork and ensure that everyone leaves the holiday gathering happy? Enter: cash gifts.
The Benefits of Cash
Cash is the ultimate flexible gift, allowing the recipient to treat themselves to something they truly desire. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t love receiving money? However, there’s a catch – giving or asking for cash can come across as impersonal if not done thoughtfully.
Etiquette Experts Weigh In
According to Thomas Farley, aka Mister Manners, the key to giving cash gifts is to present them in a way that still feels special. “The ritual of presenting a gift, opening a gift, and experiencing that level of surprise and hopefully delight, I think is important.” Farley suggests having an open conversation with loved ones about their preferences, especially if you’re unsure what to get them.
Making it Personal
To avoid the impersonal feel of giving cash, consider adding a personal touch. Diane Gottsman, founder of The Protocol School of Texas, recommends placing the cash or check in a festive holiday sleeve or card. For more distant recipients, especially younger ones, digital transfers via Venmo or other services can be a convenient and modern approach.
Receiving Cash with Gratitude
When it comes to receiving cash gifts, it’s essential to be gracious and appreciative. If someone asks what you’d like, it’s okay to be honest and suggest a cash gift. However, Gottsman advises against directly asking for money, as it can come across as rude.
The Value of Thoughtful Gifts
While cash gifts can be practical and appreciated, they often lack the emotional significance of a thoughtful, well-chosen present. As Farley notes, “Gifts you put effort into are really more meaningful.” So, if you’re considering asking for cash, remember that a beautifully crafted gift can leave a lasting impression.
Finding the Right Balance
Ultimately, the decision to give or receive cash gifts depends on your personal preferences and relationships. By being thoughtful and considerate in your approach, you can ensure that everyone involved feels valued and appreciated.
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